人的一生中，不可能一切事情如愿以偿，做到称心如意，往往会遇到许多无奈。仕途无缘，恋爱失意，婚姻挫折，教子无方，生活困惑，理想与现实往往存在很大差距。人生，其实有很多无奈。失去是无奈、错过是无奈、离别是无奈、忘记是无奈、后悔也是无奈，人生有好多好多的无奈，不胜枚举。
In one's life, it is impossible for everything to be done as desired, and often encounter many helplessness. There is no chance of the road, love frustration, marriage frustration, godchild inorganic, life confusion, ideal and reality often there is a big gap. Life, in fact, there are a lot of helplessness. Loss is helpless, miss is helpless, leave is helpless, forget is helpless, regret is also helpless, life has a lot of helplessness, not many.
无奈是对生活、对事物产生的一种无可奈何，一种无能为力。这种痛，或许不如伤痛来得直接，但却是深刻的、久久不能忘怀的!我们苦笑着、挣扎着，却发现一切只是蚍蜉撼树——徒劳无功。于是，我们渐渐对自己产生了怀疑，不，应该说是更清醒、更深刻的认识，我们发现了自己的渺小，发现了世界的残酷，发现了很多东西不是我们自己可以掌控和驾驭的。
Helplessness is a kind of helplessness and powerlessness that produces things. This pain, perhaps not as direct as the pain, but it is profound, long time can not be forgotten! We laugh, struggle, but found that everything is just shaking the tree - in vain. So, we gradually have doubts about ourselves, no, should be said to be more sober, more profound understanding, we found their own small, found the cruelty of the world, found a lot of things we can control and control.
我每天都面对许多选择题或者判断题，更难的却是应用题，取舍的过程，总是那样艰难，到底有多少次失落，多少次迷茫。可是日子还要继续，生活不能放弃!颓废?因为这个世界崩溃!我曾以为路是没有尽头的，每一段路的结尾必是另一段路的开始。可是在这里每一条路都拥有各自的轨迹，它们从未交叉，也从未连接。
I face a lot of choice questions or judgment questions every day, more difficult is the application of the problem, the process of trade-offs, always so difficult, how many times lost, how many times confused. But the days will continue, life can not give up! Decadence? Because the world collapses! I thought the road is endless, the end of each road must be the beginning of another road. But here each road has its own trajectory, and they never cross and never connect.
人生就是如此，有许多的无奈，有的人因无奈而奋起;有的人因无奈而消沉;有的人因无奈而感动。正就是这些无奈，组成了一个个不完整的人生。
Life is so, there are many helpless, some people rise up because of helplessness, some people because of helplessness and depression, some people because of helplessness and moved. It is these helplessness that constitutes an incomplete life.
人的一生，在生命的战场上，一方是我们的心灵，一方是生命的无奈。谁的生命总是鲜花和掌声?谁的生命总是一帆风顺?或许，理想和现实太遥远，有无数呼之欲出，展翅欲飞的美好理想被无情地折断翅膀;或许，平淡生活的交替轮回，早已把斗志磨碎;或许，命运的沉重和无奈，如吹糠见米，播撒着凄然和绝望。但我们得忍让着，对峙着，默默地进行较量，躲避不行，回避不能，不要祈求上帝或他人给你恩赐，只有自己正确的面对。
Man's life, in the battlefield of life, one side is our heart, one side is the helplessness of life. Whose life is always flowers and applause? Whose life is always plain sailing? Perhaps, the ideal and reality are too far away, there are countless desire to fly out, the beautiful ideal of flying wings is ruthlessly broken wings; But we have to endure, confrontation, silently fight, avoid no, avoid can not, do not pray to God or others to give you gifts, only their own right face.
正确面对诸多的无奈，是人生的必然;正确面对诸多的无奈，是人生的态度;正确面对诸多的无奈，是人生处事的方法。
The correct face of a lot of helplessness is the necessity of life, the correct face of a lot of helplessness, is the attitude of life, the correct face of a lot of helplessness, is the way of life.
人生中有很多的东西是美好的，但不能人人都能拥有。有很多的奢望让人羡慕，但只能望而止步，那就是人格;有很多现实的生活让人向往，但只能去奋斗，那就是目标;有很多自己爱的人不能相依相偎，但只能相思相恋，那就是错过;有很多有情人不能终身牵手，但只能苦苦的思念，那就是遗憾;有很多走错的路不能从头再来，只能一错再错，那就是迷茫;有很多的痛苦无法倾诉，只能去自我安慰，那就是隐痛;有很多的美好生活在向我们招手，但只能去努力奋斗，那就是拼搏!
There are many things in life that are beautiful, but not for everyone. There are many extravagant hopes to make people envious, but can only hope to stop, that is personality; there are many realistic life people yearning, but can only struggle, that is the goal; there are many people they love can not depend on each other, but can only think of each other, that is to miss; there are many lovers can not hold hands for life, but can only bitter miss, that is regret; There are a lot of wrong way can not start all over again, can only be wrong again, that is, confusion;
希望我们要珍惜自己所能够拥有的东西，要精心经营好自己的田园宝地，尤其是在现实生活中，要胸怀大度，坦然的去面对生活中的每一件事，和善的对待周围的每一个人，幸福的过好每一天，愉快的度过每一时，把开心融入分分秒秒，有粮千担也是一日三餐，有屋百间也是下榻一间。只有这样，我们才不会感到有太多、太多的遗憾……
Hope that we should cherish what we can have, to carefully manage their own pastoral treasure, especially in real life, to be generous, open to face every thing in life, and kindly treat everyone around, happy every day, happy to spend every time, happy into the minutes and seconds, There are thousands of grain burden is also three meals a day, there are hundreds of houses are also staying one. Only in this way, we will not feel too much, too much regret...
