女人要懂得，学会爱与被爱，是我们人生的必修课。
Women should understand that learning to love and be loved is a required course in our life.
你没必要只在乎他。你应该有自己的生活和选择。与此同时，你不必付出太多。如果他不领情，你就走吧。
You don have to care about him. You should have your own life and choices. At the same time, you don have to pay too much. If he doesn appreciate it, you go.
而在业余时间，人们往往选择，让自己得到快乐的方式，来放松工作给自己带来的疲惫。
In their spare time, people often choose to make themselves happy to relax the fatigue brought by work.
这种爱看似平静，其实一点也不带感情。因为不管你说什么，对方都会把事情搞砸。
This kind of love seems calm, but in fact it has no feelings at all. Because no matter what you say, the other party will screw things up.
即使你继续不主动，她也会主动来找你，引导你体验浪漫，陪她做一些无聊的小事情。
Even if you continue not to take the initiative, she will take the initiative to come to you, guide you to experience romance, and accompany her to do some boring little things.
他生气是因为你不在乎自己的生命。其实，在他生气的过程中，他比你更心痛。
Hes angry because you don care about your life. In fact, in the process of his anger, he is more heartache than you.
两个人相处，永远不需要表现得多么卑微，也永远不需要妥协，乞求对方接受你的好。
Two people get along, never need to show how humble, never need to compromise, beg the other party to accept your good.
她会变成以前讨厌的样子，开始不再认真对待一段感情。因为在她看来，即使你认真对待一段感情，你也不会得到好的结果。
She will become the way she used to hate and start not to take a relationship seriously. Because in her opinion, even if you take a relationship seriously, you won get good results.
