当你和一个总是约你见面的女人打交道时，你就知道她是想挑逗你。
When you deal with a woman who always asks you to meet, you know shes trying to tease you.
接下来，你需要利用你建立的善意，迅速了解他。
Next, you need to use your goodwill to get to know him quickly.
一个聪明的中年女人的车夫就是这两个字
The coachman of a smart middle-aged woman is these two words
如果你总是为一个男人找借口，而他不想给你时间，你是唯一一个最终会受伤的人。
If you always make excuses for a man and he doesn want to give you time, you are the only one who will eventually get hurt.
到了中年，情况就大不相同了。中年女性忧心忡忡，因为她们通过几次恋爱经历，已经不再有对爱情的好奇心。
In middle age, things are very different. Middle aged women are worried because they no longer have curiosity about love through several love experiences.
相反，不爱女人的男人脸很淡定，聊天时总是一副淡定的样子，更不会出现脸颊微微泛红的样子。
On the contrary, men who don love women have a calm face. When chatting, they always look calm, and they won have a slight redness on their cheeks.
你可能觉得这些太抽象了，但你必须明白，爱本身是抽象的，它需要你用心去发现和感受。
You may think these are too abstract, but you must understand that love itself is abstract. It needs your heart to find and feel.
但当关系逐渐趋于扁平化时，两个人之间的联系，也慢慢的少了。
But when the relationship tends to flatten, the connection between the two people gradually decreases.
刚开始爱上你的男人，你要像个淑女一样，让气质温柔但不易攀越的外表。
For the man who just fell in love with you, you should be like a lady and let the temperament be gentle but not easy to climb.
